As a Lead Engineering (all genders) for Video & Social Dating, you are responsible for leading a cross-functional team spanning iOS, Android, Backend, and QA. You combine strong technical expertise with people leadership, ensuring your team delivers high-quality features while continuously evolving technically and operationally. You collaborate closely with other Leads, Product, and Agile to drive product success and platform maturity. 
This role balances hands-on engineering with leadership, giving you a direct impact on what we build, how we build it, and how the team grows. 

Minimum Qualifications  

  • Several years of professional experience in software engineeringwith deep expertise in at least one domain (Backend, Frontend, Mobile, QA)
  • Strong technical judgment and experience driving complex features or systems from idea to production
  • Strong communication skills and the ability to work effectively across technical and non-technical stakeholders
  • coaching mindset and a genuine interest in helping others grow
  • A strong sense of ownershipprioritization, and accountability
  • Curiosity for AI and the ability to assess where it creates meaningful value

Preferred Qualifications

  • Experience leading cross-functional initiatives or coordinating work across teams
  • Experience mentoring engineers and helping teams grow in maturityquality and collaboration
  • Experience guiding architectural decisions and balancing short-term delivery with long-term sustainability
  • Hands-on experience with modern engineering practices such as codereviewstesting, and continuous improvement

What you can expect 

  • Lead and develop one or more cross-functional engineering teams (iOS, Android, Backend, QA) with full people responsibility, including hiring, performance management, and career development
  • Drive technical leadership across the team by setting architectural direction, guiding key decisions, and ensuring solutions to be scalable and maintainable
  • Actively contribute to the codebase by developing key features and setting engineering standards through hands-on involvement
  • Guide technical decisions to ensure scalable, maintainable, and high-performing solutions
  • Ensure code quality through reviews, mentoring, and hands-on best practices
  • Align team delivery with product goals, ensuringt imely and predictable outcomes
  • Partner closely with Product Management and other Engineering Leads to align priorities and architecture, drive outcome and ensure business impact
  • Foster an inclusive, high-trust team culture with a strong focus on collaboration and accountability

At ParshipMeet, we help millions of people around the globe meet, date, and fall in love. We want our teams to be as diverse as our customer base. Constantly adding new perspectives is key to our success. We will never judge anyone by age, sex, family background, color of skin, religious beliefs nor sexual orientation. For us, it’s all about skills, competencies, and you as a human being!

Who we are

With revenues of more than 375 million Euros and nine apps, ParshipMeet Group is one of the three leading international Dating and Video companies. Our more than 500 employees help users all over the world to meet others – whether it's like-minded people, an exciting date, or love for life. True to the motto: Meet – Date – Fall in Love.

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Jan-Peter Horn
Talent Acquisition Manager +49 40 460026359

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Flexible working style Part-time opportunities Central office Subsidized transportation Training & Development plans Food and soft drinks Health benefits Retirement plans Shopping discounts Volunteer opportunities Legendary parties Team Building Events